Two years ago in January, Aquilla Amaruq was at the height of his addiction to alcohol.
鈥淲e were drinking a lot, and I had way too much again,鈥 remembers the Baker Lake resident.
He went outside for a smoke, but due to his inebriated state, fell down the stairs and couldn鈥檛 get back up. With no gloves on, Amaruq passed out, hands freezing.
He was found by his youngest daughter.
鈥淭hat really affected us, me and my wife, and I鈥檓 sure it really affected her too, because she found me outside passed out, hands frozen,鈥 recalled Amaruq. 鈥淭hat was a real wake-up call.鈥
Sober since then, Amaruq and partner Darlene Nukik have now launched a healing, recovery and sobriety group in Baker Lake, titled in Inuktitut as 釖挜釖嬦悐釚呩憰. The group had its second meeting this month, with four community members attending.
鈥淲e see people struggling with addictions in Baker,鈥 said Amaruq. 鈥淲e ourselves struggled with alcoholism. We just want to help them out, with our own struggles, help one another.鈥
The pair are 鈥渘ot certified counsellors or anything,鈥 but two residents who just want to help their community, especially in light of some of the challenges around accessing professional help. They also receive support from a mental health worker in B.C. named Sheila Vaughn, said Nukik, and they FaceTime with her during meetings.
鈥淲e know that a lot of people have tried a mental health nurse, but each time they go to their appointments, it鈥檚 a new nurse,鈥 said Nukik, referencing the turnover in the profession in the North. 鈥淪o it gets frustrating to repeat why they鈥檙e there. This group, each time they come, they don鈥檛 have to repeat.鈥
Those in the group meetings simply share their experiences and discuss their journeys. In the future, with funding or donations, Nukik hopes to involve activities beyond just meeting and talking.
鈥淲e just share our experiences with alcohol and encourage the others in the group or whoever shows up to talk about their addictions or problems,鈥 said Amaruq.
鈥淲e鈥檙e permanent residents. We鈥檙e not going anywhere. We just want to help our local Inuit. We鈥檒l do what we can. We don鈥檛 have all the answers, but I feel like when we speak with the people that show up, that we can work together to find the answers to our problems.鈥